A Prince is Born

I’m still in shock.  It all happened so fast.  Wow.

As mentioned in my last post, I approached my wife about getting a new chastity device.  We were looking quite seriously at the Queen’s Keep by Mature Metal, an excellent looking device at a very reasonable price.  It got a great review here.

I mentioned to my wife that a piercing in combination with a device like this would make it inescapable.  I suggested that a padlock through the piercing would be an option we could explore in the future.  I figured we’d start with the device, and explore increasing security later.

I sent my wife links, and later she came to talk with me.  She had done some piercing research on her own, and asked me what I thought about getting a Reverse Prince Albert piercing.  She said she really liked the look of it.  I was a bit surprised, as I know she hadn’t been fond of the regular Prince Albert piercing because of how it went through the urethra.

I hadn’t considered the Reverse PA before, but told her that I’d be more than willing.  A penis piercing is about the only way I know of to achieve 100% escape-proof chastity (without serious damage to your own cock anyway).

She surprised me by telling me to call our preferred piercing parlor, discuss the issues with a professional piercer there, and then talk it over more with her.  To me this meant she was at least half-serious.  The piercer recommended against the Reverse PA for a variety of reasons:  difficulty of the piercing, pain (it’s the most painful male genital piercing), and the long healing time of about 8 months.  He suggested an Apadravya instead or a regular PA.

Discussing his recommendations with my wife, and reviewing more photos, she decided that a regular PA would be fine.  I figured this was all sort of pre-research to help us feel better about ordering the Queen’s Keep.

But she shocked me by instructing me to make an appointment to get pierced tonight.  So I did.  And it happened.

As I said, I’m still in shock.

Looking down, tiny has an 8 gauge captive-bead ring running through his head, very similar to the Regular PA photo on Wikipedia (see link above).  It will take 2-10 weeks to heal fully, at which point a lock or chastity device designed for a PA could be used.

In other words, it looks like I’m likely to be in escape-proof chastity very soon.  The phrase “be careful what you wish for” comes to mind.

My wife pointed out that intercourse during the healing process might risk or delay healing, so she won’t be letting me fuck her for probably at least a month.  She also said she doesn’t want to go without something in her pussy for her pleasure for that long.  I’m not sure where that is going.

If any of my readers have personal experience with chastity devices that incorporate PA piercings in some way, please comment.  I could use product recommendations as well as stories about what hasn’t worked.  Links to reviews and such would be appreciated too.  Of course I’ll be looking myself as well.

More breakage

While shopping yesterday, I discovered that my CB-3000 broke yet again.  This will be my second repair of the device in the 9 days we’ve been using it 24×7.  My wife doesn’t like me having to be unlocked to repair it – being unsupervised in my workshop.  And I am frustrated at how much maintenance this thing is taking.

To be fair, this plastic chastity unit is over 5 years old, it has some mileage on it, and it was low-cost.  Prior problems have included splitting on the side at the seam, cracking of the base ring at the hinge, and the two plastic posts coming out.  The seam splitting was the worst.  When I swelled up, the cage would come apart there, and the thin skin on the shaft of my cock would get caught in the crack.  The pinching that resulted not only hurt terribly, but bled a little and took days to heal.  I tried several methods to glue it, and none held for long.  Eventually I cleaned the hell out of it and then was generous with some superglue.  Thankfully that’s been holding.

When the two original plastic pins started pulling out, I replaced them with some just-right sized steel pins I had laying around my workshop.  I had to increase the sizes of the pin-related holes just a little bit, including in the base rings.  But that was the easy part.  Gluing the pins so they would stay proved less easy.  I figured JB Weld would last forever, but that’s what gave out yesterday.  Probably not enough surface area, or inadequate cleaning before gluing, caused the failure.  Those pins take a lot of force when I swell up, and that back-and-forth pressure could have loosened them too.

Fortunately again, superglue seems to be holding.  But between my frustration and my wife’s disappointment, it seems like it may be time for a chastity device upgrade.  I suggested to her that we consider a new one, and she sounded in favor of it.  About a year ago I put together a slide show for her illustrating how 30 different chastity devices looked.  The visual aspect was most important to her, so seeing actual cocks locked in actual cages helped.  Unfortunately nothing stood out as a winner.

We have the typical chastity conundrum: how to balance security, aesthetics, wearability, security, and cost.  I’m going to add cleanliness to the list, as I’ve really noticed that it’s hard to keep my CB-3000 clean.  To be blunt, tiny starts to smell pretty bad after only a couple of days.  One option is to go through an unlocking ritual that often, but it would be ideal to be able to stay clean while remaining locked.

I’m going to look on-line and propose something to her.  With any luck, santa will bring be a new cock cage to prevent me from having any orgasms.